realisation

Eventually you'll realise that if you don't start thinking for yourself, no one will.
If you keep thinking for others, who's gonna think for you? 

You're bound to make enemies, you're bound to offend some people in life. 
You can't please everyone and you don't have to. You're not obligated to. 

You can't keep trying to help everyone at the expense of your own sanity. 
You shouldn't prioritize the needs of others over your own happiness and wellbeing. 
You shouldn't burn yourself out just to keep others warm. 

It's okay to think for yourself sometimes. 

It's okay to be selfish sometimes.

You are worthy of nice things too.

You deserve to be happy too.